Making New Years Resolutions with Kids

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2011 is almost over…meaning it’s time to reflect upon the past year and look forward to 2012 with brand new resolutions and goals. This New Year, include your kids in this tradition by having them make big plans for 2012 as well.  

According to Parents Magazine, kids ages 7-12 are at the ideal stage to make their resolutions. Children at this age range tend to think more independently as they become mindful of other people’s perspectives and their own.  Here’s some tips on engaging children in making New Years Resolutions.

1. Bring it to the kitchen table!  Get the whole family together and make your resolutions so that children will have an idea about the kinds of resolutions they should be making.

2. Look ahead and ask your kids what are some of the things they want to do over the next year.  What will make them happier? What subject do they want to get better grades in?

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3. Be a good role model. Don’t ask kids more than what you are willing to do yourself.  If you want to get out the door 10 minutes earlier every day, be the first to make the change so that kids will follow your lead. 

4. Make it positive. New Years Resolutions are supposed to be optimistic.  Set the tone by celebrating your kids' past achievements and presenting their 2012 goals and dreams in a happy way that doesn't come off as preachy.

If they want to practice their art skills or do better in math class, be supportive and spend time helping them or encouraging them to practice. 

What are your New Years Resolutions??